Most of us realize that words can be hurtful and some tend to save the choicest words for the middle of a fight. Blaming or shaming your partner in a fight, however, might “win” the argument and prove that you’re “right,” but the long-term affects of these choices include resentment and unhappiness in your relationship, which can in turn lead to an affair or a divorce. It’s natural to blame, shame, and desperately prove that we’re right in an argument, especially when we’re emotionally angry or hurt, but these are negative tendencies that, fortunately, we can learn to avoid.
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