If you were in a long-term relationship that ended abruptly, you may have many questions and unresolved feelings that could haunt you for years. Trying to find closure in this situation may be impossible. Your former spouse may never admit to remorse or wrong-doing in his or her actions. The best advice you can follow is to tear your focus from the past and your hurt feelings, and learn to look toward your own future. Forgive what you can and accept the rest. The goal is to take your own life back and not let your past control your future happiness.
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