Do you argue with you spouse over the mess in the kitchen? If you do, then you should learn to negotiate your way out of the situation. Otherwise, this argument or others are likely to continue without satisfactory solutions. Any area of disagreement should be open to conversation. First, explain your feelings without making your partner get defensive. Next, once each of you has laid out your position, negotiations may begin. Explain the facts without getting emotionally carried away. Do not react or judge each other. Toss around ideas and discover what works for both of you. Celebrate your differences and find a middle ground where you can co-exist.
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