Bad marriages are something that we hear about a lot, and something marriage websites and blogs, such as the one which published this article, often talk about. A constant negative attention on marriages doesn’t mean that all marriages are bad or doomed to fail, however. In fact, many marriages are actually really good, built from […]

In a newsletter about intimate conversations, Dr. Daniel B. Wile provided an example of two partners initiating an intimate conversation by confiding fears that they had been keeping to themselves, both worrying about being less important to their partner than their partner is to them. Someone asked Dr. Wile how an intimate conversation might still

Cognitive-Behavioral Marital Therapy (CBMT) is a type of therapy that seeks to help clients improve their relationships by teaching them to reduce conflict and change behaviors by addressing their cognitive, behavioral, and affective issues and teaching them to communicate more effectively about each issue. One strength of CBMT compared to other couple therapies is its

Kristen Chase has found herself going to personal therapy in addition to marriage counseling sporadically, usually for extra support during difficult times, but has noticed each time how helpful the additional personal therapy is in every aspect of her life, including marriage. One way in which personal therapy helped with marriage was being able to

When one partner in a marriage is depressed, it can certainly take a toll on the other partner. Fortunately, there are things that can be done to help the non-depressed spouse understand the situation and in doing that help keep the marriage healthy. To begin with, it is important to not take the depression personally.

As more information becomes available offering advice on what types of things provide great sex, people can get wrapped up in the idea of not just achieving great sex but of achieving perfect sex. Everyone wants to do a great or perfect job in the bedroom, but the unrealistic expectations created by the idea of

Modern times have brought many changes, not the least of which is the way we experience intimate relationships and marriage.  In the past, it was common to make compromises when selecting a marriage partner, perhaps for financial reasons. These days, there are so many feasible alternatives to our own situation that we begin to question

Not unlike gardening, cultivating a relationship can require a constant vigilance in regards the negative thoughts that begin to sprout up in our minds about our partner.  Oftentimes these thoughts go unnoticed for days or even weeks, and by then have taken on their own power and can distort even mundane interactions.  Once our perspective

Couples therapists often hear about a lack of physical and romantic intimacy between partners, and an increasing frustration of what to do about it.   Thea and Dune Harvey have developed a combination of methods to address these concerns, and they utilize both the ancient spiritual practice of Tantra as well as Imago Relationship Therapy.  One

While the use of infidelity clauses has been more common in Hollywood, more non-celebrities may soon be using them as well.  There has been a lot of talk about them lately, and many are asking how exactly they work.  An infidelity clause is usually part of a prenuptial or post-nuptial agreement and ensures that if