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Keeping a relationship that’s going through trouble can be complicated and difficult. While this list won’t fix everything, doing more things that are good for the relationship and less things that are bad is a great way to start improving any relationship. Tip number one is to attend therapy. It might seem a bit obvious, […]

Those people who have experienced a series of bad relationships may find themselves struggling once they finally land a healthy partner, according to Dr. Stephen J. Betchen. Patterns of abuse are imprinted during youth and generally reinforced in later relationships, requiring a drastic revolt from the type of family a person has grown up in

Motherhood is a full-time job which can carry dangerous consequences that Mia Redrick refers to as “Silent War.” This is where a mother loses her identity in the day-to-day grind of being a mother. She loses sight of her personal interests and passions and often doesn’t realize that it has happened. Redrick asserts that this

Doubling is when the therapist speaks as if he/she was one of the partners in the collaborative therapy speaking to the other partner. Doubling often works subtly, this article using an example of a therapist setting a scene for a client by repeating what they said, using the personal pronoun “I.” As in, “You’re saying,

Jealousy is a common occurrence in close relationships. Things ranging from glances to the suspicion that interactions between your partner and others have deeper meanings than common courtesy demands, can raise jealousy, but more often than not people are able to bury those suspicions and trust that their partners are faithful. Extreme or “morbid” jealousy

This article was prompted by the responses that Jennifer Kromberg received to a previous article, Part 1 of the same name. Many responders were worried about the news of how women’s relationships might be affected by early childhood imprints, and many readers found themselves interested in how they might break any unwanted imprints they may

The three words are, “You’re being defensive.” While it may be true when you say it, odds are that this declaration will not immediately make the other person want to reevaluate their position and open themselves to criticism. In fact, a person is more likely than before to start being defensive once they’ve been accused

Researchers at the University of Arizona have recently published a new study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships which studied the sex difference in communication styles between heterosexual couples. It’s findings confirmed an earlier study by Neil Warner which suggested that appeasement by the male does not lead to a peaceful relationship. Warner’s

Sarah Holley led a study at San Francisco State University that checked in with middle-aged and older couples three times a year over the course of thirteen years with the intent of recording how they dealt with conflict. The study was interested in all kinds of conflict, from housework to finances. The couples were also

Dr. Lisa Firestone advises that much of what goes wrong in a relationship has to deal with what is going on in our own minds. She writes that throughout our lives, the only person we can hope to fully change or develop is ourselves. This means that while it may seem like a good idea