Having an affair can seem like a good idea to a lot of people involved in long-term relationships. To a lot of them, it also begins to seem like a very bad idea once all the guilt and the complications it brings begin to settle in. Considering that most affairs last less than three years, affairs are also not a long term solution to marriage problems. However, merely realizing that an affair was a mistake and wanting to end it does not justify simply abandoning the partner in the affair, especially if a sense of commitment or future has been impressed upon them. This is where ending the affair with integrity comes into play.
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