If your sexual desire has waned after years of marriage, it may be time to look at underlying factors that could be causing problems in the bedroom. Variations in libido are normal. A sudden, drastic drop, however, is something that may have psychological and/or physiological roots that should be addressed. Psychological factors can range from work-related stress to unresolved anger at your spouse to concerns about having children. If any of these issues correlate to the same time as your drop in libido, work through the issue and see if that helps. Once those issues are resolved, if problems continue, seeing a doctor about physiological causes might be necessary.
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