If you think the romance in your relationship is dead, it may be time to rethink what romance really means to you. Romance is defined by your expectations. Write down what you want and need romantically from your spouse. Does romance have to be a special event, or can it be incorporated into everyday moments? Is it a candle-lit dinner, a walk on the beach, flowers, or gushy poems? Maybe it’s taking a hike together, getting massages, feeling appreciated, or having a picnic? Once you decide, make a plan to schedule the time together. With a little planning, you can rekindle the romance you thought was gone.
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