Childhood issues can haunt your marriage. You may not see them but you are aware of their presence. Here are a few ways to put these unwanted visitors from the past permanently behind you. First, when you sense the presence of past issues while you and your spouse fight, look at the topic of your argument and find the link to your personal history that makes you feel so strongly. Secondly, share what you discover with your loved one so that they understand why you react as you do. Finally, use your understanding as a way to heal and find a sensible, negotiated solution to your argument.
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