Author Laura Doyle provides alternatives to some of the most common, and worst, advice given to married couples. The much touted “date night” that many couples employ quickly disintegrates into another weekly chore. Doyle found that a daily habit of verbally appreciating each other does much more to connect couples. Doyle says that advice to communicate more in marriage may inspire a wife to force conversation, complain, or criticize. The best course is to succinctly state feelings without blame and prioritize “emotional safety”. Last, consider not going to counseling and seek instead the knowledge of couples who are succeeding at marriage and enjoy the life and love you hope to attain.
Read the full article here: The Relationship Advice That Wrecked My Marriage
